Going through the notebook and still have this leftover tidbit from last weekend’s Athens Chamber of Commerce PRCA Rodeo …
Remember all those women dressed as rodeo clowns who attended Saturday night’s show? Well, they were all members of the Get’away Gals, a group of women who just like to have fun.
Saturday night, they were celebrating the birthday of one of their own. Zola Hilton (center, in the cool glasses) turned 80. Zola has a long history of being in the arena. In 1951 she was the Fort Worth Stock Show Queen! …. Happy belated birthday, Zola!
The staff at the East Texas Crisis Center includes, from left, Gwen Cox, volunteer coordinator; Donna Johnson, Outreach coordinator; Estella Perales, Legal Advocate; and Dori Fortney, receptionist. (MICHAEL V. HANNIGAN PHOTO)
(The following story was first published in the May 2013 edition of Fly the Flag.)
By Michael V. Hannigan
There is a nondescript brick building near the heart of Athens, across from the First Baptist Church ROC, where horror stories are the order of the day.
Not the typical Hollywood scarefest fodder, either — there are no special effects and the pain and the terror, the blood and the death, are real.
These are our mothers, daughters, sisters, friends and neighbors who suffer through sexual assault and abuse, usually inflicted by someone they once trusted. And that building on South Carroll Street stands as a lighthouse for them, a guide to help them escape their own private hell.
It is the East Texas Crisis Center, with the noble mission of providing “safety, shelter and education to victims of family violence, sexual assault and other violent crime and to restore dignity and purpose in their lives while promoting public compassion and awareness to reduce violence in the community.”
The ETCC serves five counties (Henderson, Smith, Van Zandt, Wood and Rains) and offers programs including: a shelter for battered women; a hotline for crisis counseling; legal advocacy; community education; crisis intervention in both individual and group settings; family protective orders; victim services; and more.
“What we do is work with victims all the way from safety and shelter to make sure that they are safe, to providing every possible service that we can to help them become sustainable so they can get out of the abuse,” said ETCC Outreach Coordinator Donna Johnson. “We’re here to help them have the resources, and the safety, and the protection so that when they make that final decision to leave for good, we’re here to provide all of those services for them so they don’t have to return.”
Unfortunately, the ETCC’s services are in high demand. Johnson said in 2012, they saw 247 new clients in Henderson County. In addition, ETCC staff and volunteers continued serving 200 more clients from previous years.
That’s between 400-500 victims the local staff of four work with each year.
Johnson calls it “the silent epidemic.”
“It is hard to understand unless it is in your own backyard, and we had to open up the dialogue to help people realize it is in their own backyard,” she said.
The truly scary statistic is the one that Johnson quoted at the Sexual Assault Awareness Month proclamation reading April 2: Only an estimated 18 percent of sexual assaults are reported nationally. That means four out of five assaults are never come to light.
It’s not hard to understand why the problem stays hidden. According to the Texas Health and Human Services Commission, “When a survivor takes steps to leave, she faces many possible barriers to financial stability such as relocation costs, loss of an income source and/or the need to replace basic need items (e.g., furniture, clothing). … Legal issues surrounding domestic violence and custody are extremely complex, particularly when the survivor and her children are forced to relocate.”
Johnson said, “You get a victim who comes in and everything is so overwhelming. Not only are they trying to be safe and go through the steps to stay gone for good, they are also dealing with law enforcement and the criminal justice system.”
And leaving for good is the most dangerous time.
“When a person who has been abused takes action to end the violence or leave the relationship, there is an immediate increased risk of danger to the survivor and her children,” says the Texas Health and Human Services Commission.
According to Johnson, it is even more dangerous in Henderson County which, along with Van Zandt County, is in the top 10 percent per capita for domestic violence murders in the state of Texas.
Locally, ETCC (and other advocates such as the Family Peace Project and the Child Advocacy Center), law enforcement, health care providers and the courts work together on the problem, Johnson said.
“We work very closely with law enforcement, the criminal justice system and the health care providers because we all have to work as a group to make sure that victim gets every possible need,” she said.
Local law enforcement officials I spoke to agreed with Johnson’s assessment.
“We have a great working relationship with (law enforcement) now. They feel confident and we feel confident about being able to pick up the phone and talk to the investigator and talk about what is going on, and they listen and they are wanting to do the right thing by the victim,” Johnson said. “I think that, as far as our law enforcement and our criminal justice system, we’ve come a long way.”
There is still a long way to go, as Johnson knows. She also believes she knows the final solution isn’t really up to her.
It is up to us.
“Where do we find a solution? By educating men,” she said. “By trying to put a system together that shows offenders that we will not stand for this; that men will not condone this. That they bring their sons up to know that it is gender respect and that you don’t hit women, that there are other ways that you can deal with that. So it starts with your own sons at a very young age and what you show them in your own environment because it is a learned behavior.”
The ETCC in Henderson County can be reached at 903-675-2137 or the emergency hotline numbers at 903-595-5591 or 1-800-333-0358. You can also visit them online at www.etcc.org.
Kirby Sanders is a journalist who used to ply his trade in Henderson County. He spent time as the editor of The Malakoff News and was also on the staff of the Athens Daily Review. … We were actually at the Review together back in the day.
He sent me a note recently saying he has published a novel based on a murder case and an outbreak of grass fires back around 1995. The book is titled, “A Death in Texas.”
“It is fiction and should be read as such, but all based on actual events,” Kirby said.
In addition to the murder plot, there is also plenty of historical and cultural background about Henderson County and Athens included, he said.
Regent Margaret Ann Trail was awarded a “Conservation in Action Award” by Texas State Daughters of the American Revolution conservation chairman Colleen Petsoa. Colleen said it was almost a given that Margaret Ann would win on the state level after all the paper work was in and the board saw what all Margaret Ann does for conservation. She lives, eats and breathes conservation. Nothing is wasted on her and her husband, Newt Trail’s ranch. After Sarah Maples member Susan Cothran-Martz paid a visit to the ranch and saw just how Margaret Ann made conservation work she made the nomination and filled out all the paper work, which was a chore in itself.
The Sarah Maples Chapter is very proud of Margaret Ann for all her work at conservation and for all the accomplishments she has done as Regent of the Sarah Maples Chapter of DAR. She has set a standard for all of us to followed which will be no easy task.
Pictured are Julie Gustafson, Margaret Ann Trail and Skip Gustafson. (COURTESY PHOTO)
DAR press release
Due to the illness of Jim Gablin, Julie and Skip Gustafson filled in as guest speakers as the recent Sarah Maples DAR meeting.
Skip spoke about the requirements for membership in the Sons of the American Revolution. He says the research can become tedious but it is worth it to hang in there. He answered questions from the audience on problems that have arisen for them in their research.
Julie spoke about the National Society Daughters of the American Revolution Genealogy Education Program she just finished. These courses, which are created and maintained by NSDAR genealogists, provide the proper completion and documentation standards required by the DAR for the verification of applications and help you hone your skills in preparing DAR applications.
Skip tried to retire from flying for American Airlines. He became the Safety Officer and Captain in the Tyler Civil Air Patrol, then he became CAE Flight Instructor for the Falcon Jet 2000. Skip is in SAR, Sons of 1812, Sons and Daughters of the Pilgrims and is working on membership in the Huguenot Society.
Julie is Skip’s wonderful wife and she retired from a career in Real Estate with Ebby Holliday Realtors. She has her Real Estate Broker’s license. She is a member of the Jane Douglas Chapter of NSDAR and an associate member of the Sarah Maples Chapter. She is also a member of the Dallas Chapter 6 of UDC, War of 1812 and the Sons and Daughters of the Pilgrims. She is a Genealogical Consultant for District lll TSDAR.
